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What Are You Doing With God's Blessings?

8/20/2016

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​I have often heard the word "Blessed" in response to the question how are you doing - "I'm Blessed," or "I'm Blessed and Highly Favored."  Or I have heard the word "Blessed" used in the following ways:

  • God Blessed me with my job
  • God Blessed me with my wife/husband
  • God Blessed me with another year
  • God Blessed me with a great family
  • God Blessed me with my home
  • God Blessed me to rise this morning
  • God Blessed me with the ability to sing
  • God Blessed me with...
When I started thinking about being blessed and blessings, I started wondering why Christians are blessed.  Why is one person "blessed" with a home, and another is not?  Why is one person "blessed" with a wife, and another is not?  As I headed down that road of "why," I reminded myself of Isaiah 55:9:

"For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts."  

There are simply somethings that are beyond my understanding. So instead of asking myself why is one person "blessed" with a home, and another is not?  I simply asked myself why is a person "blessed" with a home, job, health, etc.  Certainly part of the answer can be found at Luke 12:48:

"But he that knew not and committed things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall much be required; and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more."

God expects more from those to whom more was given. What does He expect?  He expects His blessings to be used to bring glory to Him.  I wonder how different our actions and views would be if we started thinking in the following way:
  • God Blessed me with my job,to glorify Him by.....
  • God Blessed me with my wife/husband, to glorify Him by....
  • God Blessed me with another year, to glorify Him by...
  • God Blessed me with a great family, to glorify Him by...
  • God Blessed me with my home, to glorify Him by...
  • God Blessed me to rise this morning, to glorify Him by...
  • God Blessed me with the ability to sing, to glorify Him by...
  • God Blessed me with.., to glorify Him by...

Whatever it is that you believe God has blessed you with - He blessed you with it for a reason - there is a responsibility attached - and it involves more than just you.

So the question is - what you are you doing with God's blessings?

Glory To God For All That He Has Done!

Blessings - Janice

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Thriving

8/20/2016

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​My congregation recently distributed a booklet to aid us in winning souls to Christ.  As a part of the booklet it has a section providing 20 ways to Thrive from within.  I was so moved, that I had to share:
  1. Immerse yourself in the Word of God
  2. Wake up every day thanking God for another day
  3. Start your day with a prayer
  4. Be thankful for who you are and what you bring to the world
  5. Celebrate who you are on a daily basis – There is no one else in the world quite like You
  6. Worship and praise God everyday
  7. Attend worship services weekly
  8. Attend Bible classes weekly
  9. Study and mediate daily
  10. Give yourself to others on a regular basis
  11. Think of others more than yourself
  12. Smile – It really is contagious, and you never know who else it might impact
  13. Be your own sunshine as most living things thrive in sunshine
  14. Think of Godly, positive things
  15. Love unconditionally
  16. Laugh out loud
  17. Share the goodness of God with all you meet
  18. Celebrate your small victories; grouped together they are HUGE accomplishments
  19. Don’t not procrastinate – Just do IT, whatever IT is
  20. Always follow through and follow up

I hope you find these as meaningful as I did and do!  I am thankful to my congregation – Greenville Avenue Church of Christ    for their foresight.

Glory To God for All That He Has Done

Blessings – Janice

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Be Encouraged

8/20/2016

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Be Encouraged is one of my favorite phrases.  It is a phrase I often say to others and to myself.  I have been told for years that I am an “encourager” – so I guess it would be natural that “Be Encouraged” is a phase I would use.

This past week I have instructed myself to “Be Encouraged” several times and this morning I started thinking about what it means and why it is so profound.

As is my habit I went to the dictionary.  Merriam-Webster defines encourage(d) as being hopeful, cheered, heartened, motivated, stirred up, fired up, emboldened, invigorated, vitalized, uplifted, inspired.

So I am saying to myself and others to:
  • Be hopeful
  • Be cheered
  • Be motivated
  • Be stirred up
  • Be fired up
  • Be emboldened
  • Be Encouraged

Generally the words “be encouraged” are offered when someone is going through a challenge, is having difficulty – having a life struggle.   These are certainly the times in which I am seeking to be encouraged.  So why during these difficult times would we feel we can be encouraged?
  • Be Hopeful
    • But I will  hope   continually, and will yet praise thee more and more. Psalms 71:14 (KJV)
  • Be Cheered
    • These things I have spoken unto you, that in Me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation:  but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.  John 16:33 (KJV)
  • Be Stirred Up/Fired Up
    • Wherefore I put thee in remembrance that thou stir up the gift of God, which is in thee by putting on of my hands. II Timothy 1:6 (KJV)
  • Be Emboldened
    • So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.  Hebrews 13:6 (KJV)
  • Be Encouraged
    • And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people were grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the Lord of his God.
Without a doubt we know that life presents Christians with challenges and that there are times when it appears there are more challenges than we thought possible, and it is in those times, especially, that Christians must remember to Be Encouraged!

Glory To God For All That He Has Done!

Blessings – Janice


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The Gift of "Forgiveness" - Part II

8/20/2016

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This is the second part of an earlier blog post.  The first post spoke to what a “gift” forgiveness is to both the giver and the receiver.  This blog post is about the act of forgiveness.  I would often ask myself “What does forgiveness look like?”  I was trying to figure out what my mindset should be and how I should behave.  After much prayer and study on the subject, I have arrived at what I feel forgiveness looks like for me.

There are general questions that we ask about forgiveness, to which the scriptures provide specific answers:

How Often Should I Forgive?   –  Answer:    There is no limit.

Matthew 18:21-22:  Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?  Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.

What is the Consequence of Not Forgiving?  –  Answer:    If we do not forgive others, God will not forgive us of our sins.

Matthew 6:14-15: For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:  But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

Mark 11:25:  And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.  But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.

Although I understood all of the above, I still struggled with what does actual “forgiveness” look like in my life.  I finally realized that God expects my forgiveness to mirror the forgiveness that He provides to me.  That I am to afford others the gift, in like manner, which He has afforded to me.

Hebrews 10:17:  And their sins and iniquities will I remember no more.
Isaiah 43:25:   I, even I, am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake, and will not remember thy sins.

Acts 3:19:    Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord.

Isaiah 1:18:  Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

God has provided the example of what forgiveness looks like.  When God forgives my sin, He no longer remembers them, He blots them out, and He makes them white as snow and as wool.

When I forgive someone, I should no longer remember the sin and blot it out.  I know, personally, how hard this can be, but it is the high level to which God is calling us to rise.  We can see how this works when we observe the innocent nature of children.

Take two children playing on the playground.  One child becomes angry and hits the other child.  After the parent speaks to the child and makes him understand he was wrong, he approaches the other child and apologizes.  Within seconds the two children are playing again, as if nothing ever happened. 


I know there is an ongoing dialogue between forgiving and forgetting.  I believe it is a thin line, but one that can be understood by another example.

Take a wife who emotionally hurt her husband.  The wife asks for and receives forgiveness.  The husband has forgiven his wife, and over time has healed.  The husband still has a memory of the hurt, but he does not charge it to his wife; he does not hold his wife accountable. 


This level of innocence (1st example) and forgiveness (2nd example) is what is expected of Christians – and it is a  supernatural act  for adults, which is only achieved by seeking God’s guidance and strength.

Glory To God For All That He Has Done

Blessings – Janice


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